Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.

Never let your ego get so close to your position that when your position goes, your ego go with it.

Avoid having your ego so close to your position that when your position tells, your ego go with it.

Don't let your ego get too close to your position, so that if your position gets shot down, your ego doesn't go with it.